RELATIONSHIP
The closer you interact with the person the more psychological friction you will experience. If the relationship is superficial they tend not to last.
What is the quality of your relationship, what kind of word comes out of your mouth, what kind of energy have you sent to your partner you will know the quality of your relationship.
There is nothing wrong with the desire but your passion must be regulated.
Do you know what is reason of psychology ailments.......?
The very reason for all kinds of psychological ailments is insufficient Soul contact. What is Soul Contact, how can you connect with that......??
"LOVE" is the Food the Soul. The one and only medium to connect with the Soul is Love.
In relationship "LOVE" is the lubricant in the form of loving thought, loving word, loving feeling and loving action. In marriage we love a lot and forgive a lot. Extreme openness between partner occurs when they feel lot of Love.
No matter how sweet and wonderful your beloved is there will always be shortcomings, roses always come with thorns.
To recognise shortcomings is OK, but mental criticism must be reduced that is called nagging and nagging doesn't work.
Frequent anger brings bad luck and generacity brings good luck. Decisions made in anger tends to severe. Actually such people are are weak internally and immature soul in a big body. Like an infant, we do not screem at the baby when it dirties its diper. We need to pamper them.
When we hate some body it creates an energy link with that person and binds two souls together. If you always hold this and hold that person you cannot ever have a moment of peace. A difficult relationship comes in your life so that you could develop love, compassion, tolerance, patience, flexibility and forgiveness. You cannot fix yourself without a mirror. Such challenges will come again and again unless you master the same.
We come in any kind of relationship to enhance the quality of our life. The quality of relationship could only be enhanced with perfect sharing and absolute involvement.
But friction occurs the moment we start extracting instead of sharing.
The very purpose is to evolve and develop. We should be grateful to the "NATURE" so that we have been given a life with body. There are many ways, methods and tools available in our culture to evolve among which family life is one of the fastest one.
